Are you in midlife and seeking MORE? 

More passion and fulfillment in life? 

More time for yourself? 

More freedom from guilt, pressure, worry, and overwhelm?

Get crystal clear on the life you want, reignite your passions, and create a fulfilling, satisfying life

Design and create your dream life before 2024 begins!

Rather than making New Year's resolutions in a few months, imagine how it will feel to have already started building the life you want

  • Have been wondering if this is all there is to life?
  • Are you seeking more fulfillment, satisfaction, and purpose?
  • Do you feel like you just can't fit another thing into your day because you're so busy taking care of others that you don't have time for yourself?
  • Have you achieved everything you thought you wanted in life, but somehow it doesn't feel as good as you expected?
  • Are you rushing through life and you're wondering where's the passion, the joy, the spark?
  • Are you ready to figure out what you want to do in your next phase of life - across every aspect of your life – and how to get there?

There are many reasons why we get stuck in a life that isn't as fulfilling or satisfying as we'd like. We're busy, rushing around, taking care of everyone else in our lives. We're in a constant state of busy and overwhelm, and we don't even look up until we wake up one day and wonder if this is all there is to life.

If this is you, I want you to know that it's not unusual and you're not alone. I went through this, and I have helped myself and others come through the other side.

I want you to know that it's okay to want something different.

It's okay to prioritize yourself. It's important so that you have more of yourself, your joy, and your energy to share

It's okay to say no and set boundaries.

Even if you don't have time... even if you feel guilty making yourself a priority... you're constantly busy or overwhelmed... or you've been lost or stuck for years...

Introducing... Unleash Your Passion: 

The Official Toolkit for Midlife Women Who Want More

What you'll get:

  • A transformational 22-page toolkit so you can identify what you want in your next stage of life and make time for it, without feeling overwhelmed
  • Access to me if you get stuck or need help
  • Clarity on your passions and aspirations and time to make them happen without guilt or overwhelm

What we'll cover:

Day 1: Review your satisfaction with your life currently, where you’d like it to be, and how to get there

Day 2: Review how you spend your time, whether it’s aligned with your desires and aspirations, and start creating space for what you love

Day 3: Identify and address limiting beliefs that may be holding you back

Day 4: Forgive yourself and let go of feelings and judgments about yourself or decisions you have made

Day 5: Design your dream life schedule

Day 6: Set and hold boundaries

Day 7: Write a letter from your future self

Imagine knowing what you want to create in your dream life in 2024 before the year begins

What would it feel like to get a head start and ...

  • Be excited by the life you are creating and feel great about what you have accomplished
  • Have confidence you are on the right path FOR YOU and know how to get there
  • Rediscover your passion, joy, and spark?
  • Feel fulfilled and satisfied and have a sense of purpose
  • Manage your schedule and know you'll have time to focus on yourself
  • Know when and how to say no

I'm Tina, and I'm an Identity & Midlife Architect/Coach

I am a certified, trained coach in midlife transitions. I have studied the process of identity formation, how our values and beliefs are formed, the psychology of midlife crisis and transition, how our environment and experiences shape our perception of ourselves – and how we can overcome all of this.

My certifications & training:

  • Certified Master Life Coach
  • 25 hours additional training in Midlife Awakening/Transitions coaching
  • 60 hour Somatic Attachment Therapy Certificate, The Embody Lab
  • Attachment & Neurodevelopment Certificate, The Biology of Trauma

And, my educational background:

  • Masters in Business Administration from Northwestern University's Kellogg Graduate School of Management
  • Bachelor of Science in Business, Eastern Illinois University

Have you ever found yourself wondering, “Is this all there really is to life?”

Do you love your work? Do you love your life?

I know I wasn’t… back in 2020, I was really struggling.

I’d started a new job at the beginning of the pandemic, I was navigating some difficult family dynamics, and I was struggling with finding out a year earlier that my name and birthdate had been changed upon my adoption.

I was in an identity & midlife crisis – and I’ve learned they are inextricably connected. I was reconciling who I thought I was for the first 50 years of life with new information and a desire for something MORE.

When I left the new job, I dove into a quest of self-discovery, soul-searching, and growth, taking classes, reading books, and searching for answers… and I came through the other side with new tools and a new outlook on life, and a desire to help others do the same.

We are all conditioned by our experiences from childhood throughout life. For so many of us, we’re told to go to college, get a good job, get married, buy a house, have kids, getting a “bigger” job, buy a bigger house, work until we retire.

When we want something different, this can create upheaval and uncertainty, but this doesn’t have to define the life you live today. It’s okay to want something different, and I have developed a 12-step framework to help you figure out what you want and create a life that will light you up.

There are many events that can trigger this longing for more or something different, from becoming a parent to becoming an empty nester, to changing careers, to divorce, or the death of a loved one. Each of these events can be a time where you are called to reinvent yourself. A time for you to evolve into something more satisfying and fulfilling.

The most important part of my journey is the realization that I don't want others to go through the struggles and challenges alone or to struggle as long as I did. I want to help others in midlife or going through life transitions to avoid the trap of a crisis and instead experience a powerful transformation to who they choose to be. I want to share the knowledge and tools I have gained to accelerate others’ journeys toward an extraordinary life filled with purpose, meaning, and fulfillment.

That’s why I started Identity Reinvention, to help mid-life professionals reinvent their lives, reignite their passion, and create a life of purpose and fulfillment! What I teach is based on the tools and techniques I learned during my coaching programs along with other concepts I picked up along my journey. It is what I wish I had when I started. It will accelerate your journey to living a life aligned with your true self and your passions, and provide support and accountability in a community of like-minded people to support you.

What people say about working with me

"Before, I was numbing my discontent with my life with Netflix binges, food, and some nights, too much wine. My life was filled with 'I should...' and it was suffocating. Working with Tina was a game changer. I've ditched the old me, found what lights me up, realigned my schedule with what's important, and tossed those draining 'shoulds' out the window."

Susan

"I kept telling myself that my health was important, yet Tina helped me realize that I wasn't actually making it a priority by making time for it. Scheduling basketball and walks with my wife has lowered my blood pressure and helped us connect during this scheduled time together."

Shawn

"I am in such a better place right now. I learned how to love myself and my life again! This is life-changing!"

Jennifer

"I honestly feel that it has been the best investment I could have ever made in myself!"

Marie

"After working with Tina, I was laughing again and hopeful for my future. Now, I look forward to what my future has to offer!"

Lisa